“What do I want to do next?” We all need to ask ourselves that question on a regular basis. Not so much as we work through the tasks on that pesky To Do list as to keep the sense of adventure in our lives.
What do I want to do next? Next year? Next as a focus for learning something? Next as a way to “give back?”
Asking that question can seem kind of pointless when you are stuck in the daily grind of work, kids’ needs, and then more work. It still needs to be asked then–as a way to visualize the “brass ring” of getting beyond the hectic schedules and overwork that modern culture expects of us during our career years.
Maybe we don’t ask that key question very often when we’re younger, but after retirement, asking that question becomes critical. Otherwise you end up in a boring rut of “same old same old.”
When I left the corporate world, my answer to “What do I want to do next?” was easy–write novels. I set about learning how to do that with the same intensity I’d used to succeed in business. It didn’t work out the same way though. Other things came along that deserved my attention. I had time, and I willingly gave it. A month wandering around Florida in January makes perfect sense for a resident of Colorado. Helping sort my deceased brother-in-law’s household so his only brother (my then husband) could get it on the market? Of course I will do that. A world cruise? Of course!
When I finally got back to writing with any kind of regularity, I decided that what I really needed to write was screenplays. So I took a year-long course online with UCLA. I do love screenplays. You have to tell the story in images. What you write is just the blueprint; a whole team has to use that to actually create the desired product–a movie. I love teamwork. This was my last best thing to do.
Then reality intervened again. You know those complaints about Hollywood ignoring screenwriters over 30? They’re real. I was furious after one particularly blatant ageist encounter. Then “What do I want to do next” was answered with Change this attitude! After I calmed down, I could see that the Hollywood attitude toward older people wasn’t the most important thing to change. The important change was with the older people themselves. So I worked on what eventually became Supercharged Retirement. And I pushed myself to get it out there as fast as I could rather than writing it and then putting it in a drawer. (Which is a lot easier, trust me.)
When that book came out, there wasn’t much about how to get the stuff other than money figured out for when you retire. What I had to offer did make a difference. I went back to using other skills I’d developed in the workforce to do seminars and promote the book. Now there are a lot more resources for people to use and that’s good. For them and for me. With plenty available, I can look around for “What do I want to do next?” again.
This time, the answer is a rerun. I want to write novels.
So I am going back to following that bliss. I think. The retirement stuff is still important. It will probably fold back in as well.
How about you? What do you want to do next? Once you’re retired. this is mostly about doing what you believe in, what you have fun at, what you want to learn more about and become better at. (So if you answered “Clean the garage, ask yourself the question again.)